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The funeral or memorial service is first and foremost a time of worship, and a celebration of the hope that is ours as believers in Christ.  While the funeral honors, remembers and celebrates the life of the deceased, the heart of the funeral is always the gift of life that God grants.  We strive to ensure that the proclamation of Easter life is strongly present in the music, scripture, and message of the service.

 In the brief time leading up to the funeral or memorial service, a pastor will meet with your family to plan the worship service.  Any input you have such as favorite hymns, scripture, etc., is helpful in making a plan.

Location:  Most often the location of the service is at the church. 

Date:  The date of the funeral will be scheduled through the church and funeral home in consultation with the building and pastor’s schedule.

Officiating Pastor:  You may request any of the pastors presently serving First Lutheran to officiate, but the pastors will determine who officiates based on availability.

Pall:  When a casket is present, a cloth covering called a “pall” will be placed on the casket before it is brought into the sanctuary at the beginning of the service.  The pall symbolizes the righteousness of Christ with which we are “covered” through our baptism.

Luncheon:  If you wish to have a meal or dessert served following worship, that can be arranged and it will be served by one of First Lutheran’s service groups.  This fellowship time is important for families and friends as they support each other.  The family should provide an approximate number of how many people will attend the luncheon.

Visitation:  Typically, a visitation is held at the funeral home the day before the funeral.  It is also common to have a one hour visitation at the church immediately prior to the start of the service.

Memorials:  Many choose to designate one or more memorial recipients to which gifts may be given.  There are many worthwhile charities and associations.  Your consideration of First Lutheran Church and/or the First Lutheran Endowment Fund as a memorial recipient would be much appreciated.

Making a plan:  The pastors encourage your participation in planning and shaping the funeral or memorial service.  Some parts of the worship to consider are:

  • Favorite hymns
  • Bible verses

In the event that a memorial service is planned, it is helpful to church staff members to have someone from the funeral home in attendance who will attend to the arrangements for the service such as setup, arranging of flowers, and tending to the many details involved with such a service.

Military honors:  Military honors occur outside of the worship service after the recessional or at the graveside after the benediction.

 

Suggested Hymns

Song ELW#        Song ELW#
Amazing Grace 779   My Faith Looks Up To Thee 759
Beautiful Saviour 838   On Eagle’s Wings 787
Blessed Assurance 638   Precious Lord, Take My Hand 773
Borning Cry 732   Shall We Gather at the River  423
Children of the Heavenly Father 781   Soon and Very Soon 439
How Great Thou Art 856   The King of Love My Shepherd Is 502
Lord of All Hopefulness 765   What a Wondrous Love is This 666

Typically in the service, there are 3 to 4 musical selections which include hymns and possibly an anthem if desired.  Hymns are preferable for the processional into the church, and the recessional out of the church.

Scripture Texts to Consider

Psalm 23
Psalm 121
Psalm 139:1-12
Psalm 91:9-16
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

Romans 8:31-35, 37-39
Romans 5:1-11
I Corinthians 15:12-26
I Corinthians 15:51-57 or 55-58

Philippians 3:20-21
2 Timothy 4:6-7
Hebrews 13:6-8
Revelation 7:9-17
Revelation 21:2-5a or 21:1-7

       Matthew 5:1-12
Matthew 24:1-13
Luke 12:35-40
Luke 23:39-43

John 3:16
John 10:1-5
John 11:21-27
John 11:32-44
John 12:23-36
John 14:1-6

   
Local Funeral Homes to Assist You

Anderson Funeral Home (Alexandria)
320-763-5900
www.andersonfuneral.net

Roy-Hetland Funeral Home (Osakis)
320-859-2118

Lind Family Funeral Service (Miltona)
218-943-2011

Hoplin-Hitchcock Funeral Home (Glenwood)
320-634-4466
www.hoplinfuneralhome.com